Why Did My Dog Pee on Me? 5 Vet-Verified Reasons & How to Stop It
If there's one thing worse than being peed on, it’s being peed on by your best friend—your canine friend, of course! (Geez, what kind of friends do you hang out with?)
Dogs are great pets known for their loving companionship and intelligent intuition when it comes to basic training. Housetraining is straightforward for most dogs, as they instinctively want to pee outside or at least in a select spot.
The last thing that you expect is your dog peeing on you in your own home! So, what does it mean when your dog pees on you? You should know that your pet isn’t trying to be rude, and there is a legitimate reason for this occurrence. Read on as we outline the most common reasons below.
The 5 Possible Reasons Your Dog Is Peeing on You
1. Submissive Urination
Submissive urination is common in dogs when they feel threatened.1 It is based on a fear/anxiety response, and you will commonly see it when you approach or reach for your dog.
This behavior is most common in young dogs. They are still learning how to interact and socialize at these developmental stages. They will mostly approach people and other dogs with submission to show they are not a threat. Puppies often outgrow this behavior.
Submission is not limited to just puppies; many adult and elderly dogs will display submission but will have better control over their urination during submissive displays. Adult dogs that still urinate in submission may have difficulty regulating their anxiety or were abused in the past.
You can identify submission urination if it's coupled with other submissive body language.
Other Signs
- Low stance
- Tucked back ears
- Licking
- Raising paws
- Rolling over
How to Stop It
2. Urinary Incontinence
Your dog may pee on you simply because they are unable to hold it in, and they may not even realize they are peeing. Urinary incontinence in dogs can be caused by neurological disorders, spinal/nerve injuries, disease, UTIs, and age.2 Elderly dogs can often lose muscle mass around their bladder, making it more difficult for them to control their bladder function.
Other Signs
- Dripping urine
- Excessive genital licking
- Urethra redness or swelling
- Frequent urination
- Struggling or visible pain while urinating
- Blood in urine
- Excess water consumption
- Urine dripping
How to Stop It
If you suspect that your dog has underlying health issues, you should contact your vet.
3. Marking Their Territory
Unlike us humans, dogs lack a comprehensive language to communicate with each other. In addition to body language, dogs will use chemical signals to leave messages for each other. They do this in the form of urine marking. You may typically see your dog engage in this behavior outdoors, especially when encountering unfamiliar scents on their walks. This marking leaves a message to other dogs that your dog has claimed an item or territory as their own.
If your dog is peeing on you, they may be marking you as their property! This behavior usually does not happen unprompted. Your dog may mark you if something around them makes them feel uneasy or anxious, such as unfamiliar dogs, people, or items. They may even feel nervous about an unknown human or canine smell on you when you return home.
Other Signs
- Aggressively territorial of the home
- Showing sexual behaviors
- Conflict with other dogs
How to Stop It
4. Poorly House Trained
Unwanted urination in the home—and on you—may just be attributed to a dog not yet being housetrained. This could be likely if your dog is new to the household, whether they are a young puppy or an older adopted dog.
New additions don’t know the rules of the home, where to go to the bathroom, or how to signal they need to go outside.
Other Signs
- Releasing bladder and bowel around the home
- Looking for places to go to the toilet
How to Stop It
5. Emotion Overload: Fear, Anxiety, or Excitement
When dogs experience powerful emotions, their nervous system can engage the sympathetic system. This shuts down other unnecessary functions (like the bladder) to fuel heart rate and muscle movement.
This biological response can’t be controlled by your dog, and it can be in response to a range of emotions, typically excitement, fear, or anxiety. Excitement is most common in young dogs, and they often grow out of this kind of urination.
Dogs that are extremely fearful or anxious may also lose bladder control when faced with these confronting emotions.
How to Stop It
Conclusion
Obviously, being peed on is not pleasant. Still, the most important thing is that you do not scold or hit your dog if this unfortunate event occurs. While it might seem that way, they are not trying to be a jerk. There is always a reason for out-of-character behavior in your dog.
In this instance, there are many potential causes. Make sure you observe your dog's behavior closely to ensure that you come to the right conclusion. Your vet can assist in ruling out medical reasons and discussing behavioral issues.
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After an early start in the veterinary industry and as a conservation educator at Disney’s Animal Kingdom in Florida, Sophie has since been a successful Zookeeper and Conservationist, specializing in native New Zealand species. When she isn't bird watching in native forests or crawling through the underbrush at midnight searching for rare frog species, she can be found with her husband on their sheep and beef station, far from civilization. Alongside them, they have 2 cats, 9 chickens, and 11 dogs (most notably, her sidekick, a black Labrador aptly named Jellybean). Sophie enjoys her writing career as it provides opportunities to help and support pet owners of all kinds to give animals the best welfare possible. The only downside is the long list of strange searches in her internet history!
