Get

In Your Inbox

Dogster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

Do Dogs Like Being Pet While Sleeping? Vet-Approved Facts & Care Tips

Share

beagle dog sleeping on pillow

If you have a dog, you know they love to be petted and cuddled when awake. Some dogs may even snuggle up to you when they’re ready to take a nap and fall asleep against you for warmth. However, petting your dog or someone else’s dog while they are sleeping isn’t always a good idea—for several reasons.

We will discuss the importance of sleep for a dog, why petting them when they’re asleep may not be a good idea, whether dogs have dreams and nightmares, how you can help improve your dog’s sleep, and when dogs prefer to be petted.

Dogster divider_v2_NEW_MAY_24_

Why Petting a Sleeping Dog Isn’t Always a Good Idea

Although sleeping dogs are so adorable that everything in you wants to pet and cuddle them then, it’d benefit them more if you didn’t and kept the petting for when they wake up instead. There are a few reasons why petting a sleeping dog isn’t always a good idea.

First, never pet a sleeping dog that you haven’t built a strong and trusting relationship with. If you’re at a friend’s house and have stumbled upon their sleeping dog or recently brought a dog home from the shelter, the last thing you should do is pet them while they’re asleep and vulnerable. How would you feel if someone you recently met petted you awake?

Well, the same is true for dogs. They don’t enjoy being woken up from a nap, and because dogs are so alert, that’s precisely what will happen if you pet them, even if you do so gently. They’re also likely to jolt awake and react defensively. You have just disturbed them during their most vulnerable time, after all. Defensive reactions may include aggression, barking, or even biting.

Of course, if you’ve had a dog since they were a puppy and you’ve built a strong, trusting relationship with them and have often touched them during their sleep, they’ve probably grown accustomed to it and are less likely to get a fright and react aggressively. They may even sleep with you on your bed.

Whether you’ve had your dog for years or have recently met a dog, it’s not advised to pet them while they sleep because you’ll interrupt their rest. Just as interrupted sleep can mess up your day, you can leave your dog tired and unmotivated for activity by interrupting theirs.

woman using laptop beside a sleeping brown dog
Image by: bruno emmanuelle azsk, Unsplash

Why Sleep Is Important for Dogs

A dog’s sleeping patterns are very different from a human’s but just as important. Dogs sleep for around 50% of the day, and although we may think this is excessive, it’s necessary for their brain development, memory, learning abilities, and maintaining a healthy immune system. It’s also beneficial for recovery from activities.

A dog that hasn’t had enough sleep or constantly experiences interrupted sleep is more likely to be in a bad mood and at a higher risk of getting an infection. Dogs are polyphasic sleepers, meaning that they sleep multiple times a day. They may sleep several times a day, but they don’t have as long of a sleep cycle as humans do, with their cycles only lasting around 45 minutes and humans lasting up to 110 minutes.

Do Dogs Dream?

For dogs, sleep begins in the slow-wave sleep stage, which is relatively easy to awaken, and their bodies aren’t completely relaxed yet. The next stage is REM, which usually begins a0 minutes after they first fall asleep. The REM stage is when their brain activity starts to heighten. It’s during this phase that they are most likely to dream.

We don’t know exactly what dogs dream about, but it’s likely related to what they experience throughout the day, such as playing fetch with you and other pets, barking at birds, and other doggy activities. Dogs can also experience nightmares, which likely consist of activities that frighten them, such as bath time if they dread the task or defensive moments where they’ve reacted aggressively toward a person or another animal.

two cute dogs sleeping on the bed
Image by: Pexels, Pixabay

How Can I Help Improve My Dog’s Sleep?

A dog needs plenty of sleep to be happy and healthy, but it may look like they sleep an excessive amount, and they may not be getting the quality of sleep they need. There are numerous ways you can improve their sleep time.

Always take your dog outside to relieve themselves before bedtime. This will help them sleep more comfortably and peacefully as they won’t feel restless with a full bladder. Depending on your dog’s age or health conditions, you may need to take them outside additional times during the night.

Your dog will sleep more deeply if they’ve received plenty of exercise during the day. Exercise burns pent-up energy, thus preventing them from laying around restlessly or getting up to bark out of boredom at night. Where your dog sleeps also plays a role in their sleep quality. If your dog sleeps outside, they’re less likely to sleep as deeply and for as long as dogs that sleep indoors.

Dogs staying at your friend’s house or boarding while you’re away will not sleep as soundly as when they’re back home in their environment.

When Do Dogs Prefer to Be Petted?

Dogs love to be petted because your full attention is on them. It’s also a form of communication and a great way to show affection and bond. Although people pet dogs, dogs are often the initiators of this interaction and deliberately place their heads under your hand or brush up against your body to get it started.

Dogs love a good rub under their bellies and chins, on their chests, on top of their heads and necks, and on their sides. If you don’t know a dog well, avoid their tail, feet, face, and legs, as they can be protective of those areas.

hand petting an old dog outdoor
Image Credit: Ksenia Raykova, Shutterstock

Dogster divider_v2_NEW_MAY_24_

Final Thoughts

Although dogs love to be petted when they’re awake, petting them while they sleep can startle them awake, and they can react aggressively. Constantly interrupting their sleep can leave them in a bad mood and at a higher risk of illness. A dog’s sleep is vital for their development, health, and mood, and although dogs can sleep up to 50% of the day, it doesn’t guarantee that they’re getting the quality sleep they need. Exercise and maintaining a daily routine are great ways to improve their sleep.


Featured Image Credit: Przemek Iciak, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything dog

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.




How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Dogster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.


Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

Marigold Shocks Her Owner By Delivering 17 Irish Doodle Puppies in a Single Day

The one question vets hate hearing as they ultrasound expectant canine mothers is “how many puppies are there?” The reason is that, on...

Dogster’s Weekly Photo Contest Winners: Out Adventuring (March 12, 2026)

Every week our team gets the privilege of sorting through our readers photos to choose what dogs will win this weeks contest! See...

Ask Dr. Paola- Help! My Dog Gets Reoccurring UTIs (March 9, 2026)

Welcome to our “Ask Dr. Paola” series, where every Monday we bring expert advice straight from Dr. Paola Cuevas (MVZ) to help our...

DIY Repellents for the Dog Who Thinks Everywhere Is His Toilet

Dog urine and everything nice have a complicated relationship. One thrives, the other suffers, and if you’re reading this, you already know which...

More related

Can Dogs Eat Spinach? Vet-Reviewed Facts & FAQ

If your dog already eats nutritionally balanced dog food, they should get all the necessary vitamins and minerals. However, if you want your...

Top 4 Dog-Friendly Beaches in Sanibel, FL 2026: Off-Leash & On-Leash Places to Go

Sanibel is a surprisingly dog-friendly area. The island doesn’t allow dogs everywhere, but many dog-friendly attractions exist. Therefore, it is a suitable spot...

How Long Do Goldendoodles Live? Average Lifespan, Data & Care

Goldendoodles are known as a designer dog breed. A designer dog breed mixes two purebred dogs. In this case, the Golden Retriever and...

Inception Dog Food Review 2026: Recalls, Pros & Cons

Review Summary Inception Pet foods is a brand that produces wet and dry food for cats and dogs with animal or fish protein...

Keep reading

Can Dogs Eat Wheat Thins? Vet-Approved Nutrition Advice

Wheat Thins is a popular brand of crackers often advertised as healthy snacks. They are baked whole-wheat crisps that are relatively low in calories and often paired with other food items like dips or sliced meat. While Wheat Thins are...

Can Dogs Eat_wheat thins

Acana Dog Food Review 2026: Pros, Cons, Recalls & FAQ

Acana is a unique company that produces dog food in Alberta, Canada, and Auburn, Kentucky. It manufactures dog food for the American market in Auburn and formulas for Canada and Europe in Alberta. Champion Pet Foods, Acana’s parent company, has...

Dogster_Acana Dog Food Review

Can Dogs Eat Clover? Vet-Verified Facts & FAQ

Dogs often get into things that aren’t good for them, including toxic plants that grow in your yard. Clover grows in many parts of the world, but is it safe for dogs? Yes, clover is safe for dogs in small...

Can Dogs Eat_Clover

7 Best Dog Foods for Standard Poodles in 2026: Reviews & Top Picks

Poodles come in standard, miniature, and toy sizes. While Poodles have a reputation for being proper and regal, they are also known for being mischievous and playful. Not only is the Standard Poodle one of the most popular breeds to...

standard poodle at the beach

10 Best Dog Foods for Liver Disease in 2026: Reviews & Top Picks

Are you looking for the best dog food for liver disease? You’ve come to the right place. In this article, we look at 10 of our favorite options. Each food is specifically designed to support canines with liver problems, and...

Weimaraner eating dog food

Nutra-Nuggets Dog Food Review 2026: Pros, Cons & Recalls

Review Summary Nutra-Nuggets is a pet food company that’s under the umbrella of Diamond Pet Foods. It has two main lines of food—US and Global. The types of dog food available through each line are pretty similar, and the ingredient...

Dogster_Nutra-Nuggets Dog Food Review

9 Best Puppy Foods for Small Breeds in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

Small dogs may think they are big and intimidating, but their nutritional needs are unique. Small breeds have smaller stomachs and higher metabolisms, so they need nutrient-dense formulas to ensure adequate nutrition without weight gain. Finding the appropriate food for...

jack russell terier puppy eating food from bowl

10 Best Chicken & Rice Dog Foods in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

Chicken and rice recipes are among the most popular and common dog food formulas. Virtually every brand and formula offers a chicken and rice recipe, and for good reason! Chicken is a lean, healthy, complete protein that’s affordable and highly...

cream dog eating from the bowl

Love Dogs? So Do We! Join the Dogster Community

Stay informed with expert pet care insights delivered straight to your inbox! Discover professional guidance on animal behavior, feeding tips, trusted product picks, and much more.




Sign up for the Dogster Email Newsletter