Get

In Your Inbox

Dogster is reader-supported. When you buy via links on our site, we may earn an affiliate commission at no cost to you. Learn more.

Why Are Some Dogs “Lap Dogs” & Others Are Not? Facts & FAQ

cavalier dog sleeping on owners lap

Let’s face it, some dogs just love to cuddle up all day while others prefer a little space between themselves and their owner. But why are some dogs lap dogs while others prefer a little extra space?

The truth is that three main things affect how much a dog wants to cuddle: their temperament, size, and training. We’ve highlighted what goes into each one for you here, and we’ve even highlighted some great breed suggestions if you’re looking for a lap dog!

divider single dog paw oct 2024

The 3 Reasons Why Some Dogs Might Make Better Lap Dogs

Some dogs simply don’t make great lap dogs and there’s nothing you can do about it. But if you know what you’re looking for and what makes a lap dog a good lap dog, you’ll greatly increase your chances of finding one.

With that in mind, we’ve highlighted three of the most important traits that go into any lap dog.

1. Temperament

Some dogs simply don’t like to cuddle and there’s nothing you can do about it. While you can usually figure out if a dog is going to like to cuddle by checking out their breed, each dog will have their own personality. If they don’t like to cuddle, there’s not much you can do about it.

young woman working on laptop at home, cute small dog besides.
Image By: eva_blanco, Shutterstock

2. Size

Some large dogs love being lap dogs. The problem is it’s not as easy, or as enjoyable, to have a 100-pound dog climbing on your lap as it is for a 10- to 15-pound dog. Like it or not, the best lap dogs are small dogs.

Keep in mind that this doesn’t mean a larger dog won’t want to be a lap dog, you just might need to get a little creative to get it to work!


3. Training

Part of getting a dog to stay in your lap is forming a bond with them and getting them to listen to you and trust you. The best way you can do this is with training.

You don’t need to train them to stay in your lap whenever you want, but by building that bond and obedience with them, they’re far more likely to cuddle with you throughout the rest of the day. Talk to a vet for some good training advice.

If you need to speak with a vet but can't get to one, head over to PangoVet. It's our online service where you can talk to a vet online and get the advice you need for your pet — all at an affordable price!

PangoVet_Mention-in-Content Savings V1

divider dog paws oct 2024

What Are Some of the Best Lap Dog Breeds?

While we can’t guarantee that any dog will make an outstanding lap dog for sure, you can certainly increase your chances by getting the right breed. Below, we’ve highlighted five different breeds that have everything it takes to become great lap dogs.

1. Bichon Frise

bichon frise on thee grass
Image Credit: Ieva Tvaronavicute, Shutterstock

If you’re looking at lists of the best lap dogs out there, the Bichon Frise is near the top of every list. These dogs are notorious cuddlers, and since they’re considered hypoallergenic, they’re not leaving you covered from head to toe in hair when they get up.

They have quite a bit of energy in their puppy years, but it doesn’t take too much or too long for them to calm down enough to enjoy some long cuddle sessions.


2. French Bulldog

close up of a brindle french bulldog
Image Credit: Irit, Shutterstock

French Bulldogs are outstanding companion dogs that happily curl up into their owner’s laps whatever chance they get. They’re extremely loyal too, and their smaller size means you don’t have to worry about them in smaller living spaces.


3. Pug

pug dog wants to sneeze
Image Credit: Lemalisa, Shutterstock

Pugs are among the best lap dogs in the world because of their small size, loving temperament, and low energy levels. However, they do shed quite a bit, so keep that in mind because you’ll likely find yourself covered in short hairs after they get up.


4. Maltese

maltese dog in meadow
Image Credit: TaniaVdB, Pixabay

The Maltese is another small hypoallergenic dog that loves to cuddle. This means plenty of time with a loving dog in your lap and no pet hair when you get up! They also have a rich and long history that makes them an even more interesting breed.


5. Pekingese

pekingese
Image Credit: T.Den Team, Shutterstock

The Pekingese is another extremely small dog that will happily sit on your lap and rest for the day if you let them. They’re not hypoallergenic, but they are extremely loyal and do a great job of listening to their owners.

divider dog paws 3 oct 2024

Final Thoughts

If you’re looking for a dog to cuddle up on your lap, you’re not alone. Now that you know what to look for, you can greatly increase the likelihood of getting a lap dog. But keep in mind that you can never guarantee that any dog will turn into the lap dog you want.

If you get the right breed, cuddle them, and train them, there’s a good chance they’ll want to curl up in your lap quite a bit!


Featured Image Credit: bane.m, Shutterstock

Want content like this delivered to you?

Sign Up For Our Newsletter

News, insights, expert advice, and everything dog

* By submitting, you agree to our Terms & Conditions and Privacy & Cookies Policy.

How useful was this post?

Click on a star to rate (you can leave written feedback after clicking submit)

Help us improve Dogster for pet parents!

Your feedback really matters.

What did you like about this post? Also how can we improve it?

Join the conversation

Leave a Reply

You’re very welcome to leave a comment or question. Please know that all comments must meet our community guidelines, and your email address will NOT be published. Let’s have a positive and constructive conversation.

Talk With A Vet Online

Peace of mind,
anywhere, anytime

Affordable vet advice

What’s the Difference Between a Dachshund, Dotson, and Doxin?

Several dog breeds have a few nicknames to describe them. So many have nicknames that it can get a bit confusing when you...

Dogster Photo Contest: Dogs of the Week Winners (Feb 13, 2025)

This Week’s Winner Cutest Most Expressive Silliest Most Dignified Best Action Shot Enter Your Dog Submit your doggie for a chance to be...

What Breed of Dog Is Blue From Blue’s Clues? Cartoon Dogs Presented

Blue’s Clues is a popular children’s TV show that has been running since 1996 and is still going strong. Out of all the...

425 Popular & Unique Vizsla Names

Sometimes referred to as the Hungarian Pointer, the Vizsla is a strong and intelligent dog that loves the outdoors. Vizslas tend to show...

More related

Dogster Photo Contest: Dogs of the Week Winners (Mar 27, 2025)

This Week’s Winner Cutest Most Expressive Best Action Shot Most Dignified Silliest Sleepiest Enter Your Dog Submit your doggie for a chance to...

What Are Male Dogs Called? Vet Reviewed Facts & FAQ

As for what a female dog is called, many people know that the technical term is a “bitch”. However, most don’t refer to...

Can a Human Eat Dog Food? Vet-Approved Facts & FAQ

If you’re thinking about eating dog food because you’re out of options, we have some bad news for you. Dog food is not...

Why Do Dogs Eat Their Vomit? 4 Vet-Reviewed Reasons & What to Do

Dogs have some really weird habits that disgust us, but we just chalk it up to them being dogs. For example, your dog...

Keep reading

Can Dogs Eat Huckleberries? Vet Reviewed Facts & FAQ

If you’re a dog parent, you know that one of the most important things about caring for your dog is providing them with adequate nutrition. Dogs are omnivores and can eat meat, veggies, and fruits, which raises questions about dog-safe...

Can Dogs Eat Huckleberries

9 Cranberry Dog Treats Recipes to Make for Your Pup

Check with a veterinarian before adding any new foods to your pet’s diet, particularly if your pet has any underlying health conditions or is on a special diet. If you love baked goods and making all sorts of yummy snacks...

cranberry dog cookie treats

Can Dogs Eat Pears? Vet-Approved Facts & FAQ

It’s natural to wonder what foods are safe for your dog to consume, as it’s common to want to toss them a quick piece of meat or veggies while you’re at the dinner table. But what about fruit? More specifically,...

Can Dogs Eat Pears

Can Dogs Eat Pudding? Vet-Reviewed Facts & FAQ

Imagine this: You’re feeling nostalgic for the school lunches you ate as a kid. You’re halfway through your peanut butter and jelly sandwich when you spot a fresh cup of pudding. As you pull back the lid, your hands slip,...

Can Dogs Eat_pudding

Are Bully Sticks Safe for Puppies? Vet-Reviewed Nutrition & Safety Facts

We all love to give our pets treats, and there are plenty of options out there. Some will be better than others, so we must be vigilant about watching ingredients and other factors to make sure the treats are healthy...

Dogster_Are Bully Sticks Safe for Dogs

Ollie Fresh Dog Food Review 2026: Pros, Cons & Final Verdict

Ollie Pets delivers fresh premium dog food straight to your door. All the recipes were crafted by experts in the field and contain very nutrient-dense ingredients. If you’re looking to make mealtimes more convenient, you’ll want to consider Ollie. Once...

DOG SAPR OLLIE NEW

12 Best Moist Dog Foods in 2026 – Reviews & Top Picks

Becoming a dog parent comes with a lot of responsibility, and one of the top priorities is your dog’s diet. Naturally, we want the best for our furry friends and provide them with a well-balanced, nutritious and delicious meal to...

West Highland White Terrier dog at home eating

What To Add to Dog Food for Dry Skin: 9 Great Ideas

As dog owners, we understand the frustration of a pet that scratches and licks excessively, but it is much more agonizing for the dog. If you checked for fleas and there are none, your canine friend likely has dry, itchy...

woman feeding dalmatian dog