The idea of giving a puppy as a gift can feel like a thoughtful, heartwarming gesture. Whether it’s for a birthday, an anniversary, or simply to brighten someone’s day, surprising a loved one with an adorable furry companion can seem like the perfect present. But while the intention may come from a place of love, the reality is that gifting a puppy without careful planning can lead to serious challenges. Welcoming a dog into someone’s life is a long-term commitment, one that demands time, resources, and a genuine willingness to take on responsibility, none of which can be assumed on someone else’s behalf. Without proper preparation, what starts as a sweet surprise can quickly become an overwhelming burden for both the new pet parent and the animal.
Below, we break down why puppies often make poor surprise gifts and why it’s worth considering other options when looking for the right present.
Here are some of the problems with giving pets as gifts:
1. Lack of choice.
Selecting the right dog for your family is part of the fun of obtaining a new dog or puppy, and choosing responsibly is a critical part of the decision. Research a wide variety of breeds to find a good match, and make sure all the household members discuss your potential pet’s temperament, size, health issues, grooming requirements, training goals, and exercise needs. You should do at least as much homework as you would to select a new car or home — after all, this animal will be in your life for at least a decade.
2. Holidays are a stressful time for people and dogs.
It’s much better to wait until things calm down in the new year so that you have more time to dedicate to raising your puppy well or helping your older adopted dog adjust to and thrive in your home.
3. Beware the gift of investments.
Imagine telling someone, I purchased you a college education! for Christmas, when, in fact, you only bought them textbooks for their first semester. It’s absurd! Just as books are not the bulk of the cost of a college education, the initial expense of a dog is only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to costs associated with lifetime pet ownership.
The ASPCA estimates that it costs $1,843 to raise a large breed dog throughout its first year of life. I almost fell off my chair when I read this. Having just finished a year of raising a Saint Bernard puppy, I can tell you that our costs far exceeded this. I had to buy a bigger vehicle when I decided to become a Saint mom, so tack on multiple thousands of dollars for the cost of more gas and a van, if you want a big dog. The costs of pet ownership will vary with geographic region, quality of nutrition, and the amount of training you give to the dog.
Owning a dog over its lifetime is an expense measured in tens of thousands of dollars. Hey, Merry Christmas, right?
4. Dogs are animals and deserve to be treated with respect.
Almost all pets given as gifts are obtained from unethical sources like puppy brokers, mills, and backyard breeders. How do I know this? Because truly responsible breeders (diamonds in the rough!) and good rescue or shelter organizations will not just send any dog to any home, they want to send every dog to the right home, which means screening individual dogs and adopters to ensure the best possible matches.
Conclusion
As we’ve seen, while gifting a puppy may seem like a joyful and heartfelt gesture, it’s important to recognize the serious responsibility and long-term commitment that come with dog ownership. Surprising someone with a pet can lead to unexpected challenges, including mismatched lifestyles, financial strain, and ethical concerns around sourcing animals from questionable breeders.
Instead of presenting a puppy as a surprise, consider involving the potential new pet parent in the decision-making process. This still allows you to give a meaningful and thoughtful gift, while also ensuring the dog is a good fit for their lifestyle, and that they’re fully prepared for the responsibilities ahead. Alternatively, consider pet-related gifts such as books on dog care, donations to animal shelters, or gift cards for pet supplies. These are all great ways to show your affection without placing the weight of pet ownership on someone who may not be ready.
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Totally agree—pets shouldn’t be surprise gifts; they deserve thoughtful planning.