Barked: Tue Mar 5, '13 11:32pm PST |
 |  |  |  | I'm definitely not in favor of leaving a dog in a situation that terrifies him, but with a new situation that provokes a bit of whining, I will give verbal encouragement, bend down and pet both dogs on the sides or belly, or give treats, rather than stopping the interaction on a negative note. Basically, he's asking "mom, is this situation dangerous? Should I be worried?" and you're answering "yes, it is dangerous, so I'll rescue you" where it would be better to tell him "nope, this situation is A-ok, see?" A dog who won't let himself be sniffed is like a child who hasn't learned to smile and say hi, and friendly mouthing is the basis of dog play; these are crucial skills for basic functioning in dog society. I agree that grabbing other dogs by the collar is not a good idea. Generally people who bring their dogs to dog parks are expecting to have them play/wrestle with other friendly dogs, and will not expect other owners to handle their dogs unless it's a friendly pat. Collar grabs may make the dog or the owner angry, especially in a situation like this where it's not warranted. And in a true emergency, lifting the other dog's back legs and walking backwards is probably more effective. |  |  |  |  |
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