|Barked: Sat Apr 19, '08 4:20pm PST |
|When I joined Pommie Love it was because of my love for my babies, particularily my Poms, and to share that love with other pet lovers. I've tried to show compassion, encouragement, and love to so many that need it. I sit and read so many heart breaking stories. I enjoy the fun interchange between the pups. I don't have the time to do the romance type of thing and my poor little Brodie was jilted because of it. Brodie understood. He just didn't have the time to give his little sweetheart. And her charming knight in shining armor could fill her needs. Very well I might add. In the process another little girl got jilted. Brodie sent her a little condolence message. As far as I was concerned it was all in fun, but she got really ugly about it. I said so be it and I stay away from this pup and try not to do anything to provoke her.
When I come to the group I expect to see postings about our kids, be it needing prayer, encouragement or just plain fun. I don't come here for the Jerry Springer type of postings. If you have human issues and feel it is necessary to duke it out with neighbors, boyfriends or whoever, take it somewhere else. This isn't the Springer Show. I don't watch that type of stuff on TV and don't expect it to be here. I believe postings reprimanding that type of postings should be kept private whether it is an admin or another member doing the reprimanding.
I don't understand why the original post was allowed to stay. If the responding party's post was pulled, why wasn't the whole incident pulled? Is there a double standard? Is it not tit for tat? If these are the type of postings that are going to be here rather than arguing about it, it will be time for me to find another group.
I understand how hard it must be to try to keep so many people happy and I admire you for it. Harley has been my hero and role model since I joined Dogster. He was one of my first friends and I will love him forever.
I have found so many friends on Dogster, that I dearly love but I will not stay in a group that allows this type of postings. If this is the type of post desired it isn't a place for me and my kids. Dang my own life has enough issues in it, I come here to escape, not find more controversy.
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