Barked: Thu Aug 19, '10 8:16pm PST |
 |  |  |  | I would probably call the police if someone got in my face and tried to tell me how I was correcting my dog was wrong. Same thing with children. If you see someone wailing on their dog or kid, of course call the authorities, but come on - many people nowadays think spanking is child abuse, yet myself and my brothers (and many of my friends) don't suffer from any kind of "mental scarring" or PTSD or any of that because our parents spanked us. Having not seen what the OP saw, I can't say that it wasn't abusive and over the top, but I can say that some dogs can deal with and respond well to physical correction. My first dog (as an adult) did NOT respond well to physical correction - he was all about diversion and positive association. Henry, being a very stubborn little dog, had to be physically corrected when he began marking behavior indoors. I'm sure bleeding hearts would tell me it's my fault he marked because I didn't neuter him, but that was my choice. Marking was not, IMO, an inevitable and uncorrectable behavior for an intact male. Loud noises, crating, etc did NOTHING to deter him. A well-timed and well-placed pop on the leg he was lifting? Got the message across. And guess what? He isn't "scared to pee" outside, like most folks will tell you happens when you use physical discipline to deter indoor excretion. He pees just fine and quite happily on every vertical surface outside, because he knows he can. I give my dog more credit than that - he does, in fact, know what's acceptable and what isn't. He has also been popped when he failed to listen to a direct command repeatedly and I have taught him the word “shame” as a command to lay down and roll on his back, which refocuses his attention on me and calms him down no matter what he’s doing. Am I a dog guru or am I saying that I know best? Absolutely not. But I know my dog, and training is so much trial and error. Do we, as human beings, make errors in judgment and get over-stressed and out of line at times? Absolutely. If making a scene and embarrassing someone prevents dog abuse, great. But remember that just because you don’t agree with someone’s methods doesn’t make them necessarily wrong. (I’m sure I will get jumped all over for posting this, but my very happy, very loved, relaxed dog is calmly chewing on his bone and asks that you please play nice!) |  |  |  |  |
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