Barked: Thu Jan 19, '12 7:37am PST |
 |  |  |  | WE AGREE....Insecurity drives a lot of people to make bad choices and behave badly.
This grandma when she was 1st. married (age 18) had lost her self confidence and was very insecure. Due to some traumatic events at college. Looking back, it is God's grace that her marriage has survived for almost 4 decades(well 39 yrs. in April)
Grandma came very close to suffocating her marriage by trying to force her hubby to prove his love and devotion to her on a regular basis. She was a very needy woman back them. Wouldn't make even simple decisions without debating every angle.
Which was really sad, because Grandma has the more organized and stronger personality of the 2 of us. God used hubby to mend grandma from all the wounds she carried inside. Just by continuing to love her and encourage her. So Love is a Great Healer. |  |  |  |  |
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