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Teddy- 1998-2008

Office Guard Dog
 
 
Barked: Sun Nov 23, '08 11:00pm PST 
My name is Teddy and my mom is new here too, and is also having a hard time with my passing. For the past few months she has just been in denial about the whole thing, and has hardly been able to let herself think about me because it just makes her heart hurt SO much. Now she is starting to accept what has happened and is making a scrapbook with all of my pics, which is fun but makes her cry a LOT! She hasn't been able to order my urn yet though, she keeps trying to but hasn't even though she wants my cremains to be in something beautiful.

My mom and I just didn't get enough time together. We were soulmates and while she loves her other dogs, we had an extra special bond in the 1.5 years we were together... we did practically everything together. I had many illnesses, but she didn't expect me to go the way I did and blames herself for it every day... I think deep in her heart she knows I went quickly and didn't suffer, but she would do anything if she could change what happened so I was still here with her now.

Thanks for letting mom vent a little... she misses me an awfully lot! cry
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Kosi - (killed in- Feb.08)

*** together we- are strong ***
 
 
Barked: Mon Nov 24, '08 10:26am PST 
A lot of hugs to all you wonderful moms. hug
Mom has a real low right now as well. It is little over a year that her twins (Great Danes) did this terrible death. hug She is keeping herself buisy so that she does not have to think about it. hug Yes, all you wonderful moms, that is what we do not to feel the hurt so much.hug
Lets all have a big big hug together.
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~Angel (RIP- 11/20/07)~

Rescue dogs give- better kisses!
 
 
Barked: Mon Nov 24, '08 10:45am PST 
hug Kosi and mom hug

Teddy...I only got 11 months with my Julie. She says that I was her doggy soulmate. We know how you feel. It is just not fair. cry Please tell your mom to just hang in there and take it day by day. I think the scrapbook is a good idea and will help. Also maybe she can write all about you, either in your dogster diary or in the scrapbook. hughughughug
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Cheyanne - Our Sweet- Angel

I Will Always- Watch Over- You....
 
 
Barked: Mon Nov 24, '08 10:53am PST 
hughug Teddy hughug

It is always hard when we lose someone we love. We have all been there and truely understand the pain you are feeling. It really is neccessary to grieve and we all do so in different ways.

One thing I do know is....It helped my mom to talk about it..

Please know we are all here for your Mom.

Big Angel Hugs Teddy
Cheyanne
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Teddy- 1998-2008

Office Guard Dog
 
 
Barked: Sun Nov 30, '08 9:26am PST 
Thanks you guys for the support. It's helping my mom to write in my diary and looking at posts here to see that she's not alone.. you all know how most of the rest of the world just doesn't get how we feel about our furkids, so it's wonderful to have somewhere to connect with others who feel the same way!
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Cheyanne - Our Sweet- Angel

I Will Always- Watch Over- You....
 
 
Barked: Sun Nov 30, '08 9:40am PST 
Oh.... My goodness Teddy....Mom's FAMILY didn't even understand why it took so long to "get over" Me coming to the bridge. So she just clammed up which I think was the worst thing for her. She went on to cry every night and felt like she was a closet griever, if there is such a thing. Dad shows his grief in a different way...he just chooses NOT to talk about it bacause it makes him sad. Thank DOG...Mom found Dogster.. and especially the RBAB group. She certainly would have gone crazy. Now when she talks to me or holds my urn, she feels good about it and the memories make her cry but many of them are now happy tears knowing I am up here and not alone. I have all my furends.. I love it here and that makes her smile again. Sorry this is so long...the holidays.........
Big Angel Hugs
Cheyanne
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Angel- Precious

Forever Loved- 8/10/96-10/11/08
 
 
Barked: Tue Dec 2, '08 5:39pm PST 
I completely understand blaming yourself for Teddy's loss. I'm still struggling with that too. I lost Precious on October 11 of this year and I still cry myself to sleep every night. I just can't get over how fast it happened, and can't help but cry every time I'm alone in the house or remember what her last moments were like.
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~Angel (RIP- 11/20/07)~

Rescue dogs give- better kisses!
 
 
Barked: Tue Dec 2, '08 6:20pm PST 
Angel's Gotcha Day is coming up...Dec 10...yesterday I came home from work and checked the mail...there was a birthday greeting from PetSmart addressed to her. crycrycrycry
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Kosi - (killed in- Feb.08)

*** together we- are strong ***
 
 
Barked: Tue Dec 2, '08 7:29pm PST 
Oh my, do we understand that all. Mom lost me which was verry difficult but even more difficult for Kosi Dad. He called her his little nurse because when he did not feel good she always was at his side.
13 months ago mom lost her Dane Twins to a terrible useless necelect of others and tries since then to put them on dogster not beeing able yet. They just had been 8 Month old. Mom loves all of her dogs but this two were special to her.

So she helps others and tries to help herself that way.

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Ms.Bacall - in Loving- Memory

only 7 months- with our family
 
 
Barked: Tue Dec 2, '08 7:31pm PST 
here's more hugs for Kosihughug and Teddyhughug.
hugCheyanne~ my person ignored anyone who said 'get over it' (and it's THEIR problem if they thought we were being rude).
hugAngel Precious, it's so good that you wrote a diary over the years.

and Angelhug, tell Julie we're sorry yall got the greeting from PetsMart hug ... our worst is getting license-renewal notices from the Citycry, it's so bureaucratic ... and we go tell them, we're no longer 'here' cry or else the notices'll come year after year ...
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