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LEK Daphne,- SD

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Barked: Mon May 14, '12 2:43pm PST 
ok, the guilt is eating away at me so I'm going to confess.

Daphne hasn't been getting much exercise. Since I brought her home I've been getting weaker and weaker and now I'm at the point where things like turning my body takes a concerted effort.

I get up and go to work where I just sit for five hours doing law stuff. By the time I've been upright that long, just walking to the car is hard. I come home from work and am essentially immobile for the rest of the day.

We have a big backyard that's fenced in on 3 sides. The 4th side separates our lawn from our neighbor's lawn and it's got a row of hedges. There's a gate for the driveway so I let Daphne off-leash back there to play. I try to throw a few balls for her but it's hard to even sit up at that point.

Daphne's not the only one suffering. I've stopped shopping, stopped going to the salon, and stopped the activities and groups that I love. Once in awhile I can get to the mall or the park and Daphne will have a great time but I can't do it two days in a row. Twice a week I drive an hour to my boyfriend's house. He has a massive yard but no fencing. I let her out to play there but, again, I eventually have to go lie down.

We've both gained a lot of weight and we're both out of shape. In the afternoons you can tell that Daphne would be climbing the walls if she wasn't such a good girl.

I think a wheelchair might really help, but I live with my parents and they really don't get what I'm going through. I don't think they understand just how HARD it is for me to do little things because most little things I refuse to stop doing. For instance, I need to rest after brushing my teeth. The combination of leaning over the sink, holding my arm up, and holding my neck straight is exhausting. Still, my parents would really hate it if I was in a wheelchair because I get the feeling they already think I'm a faker.

I don't want to let Daphne down. What do I do?
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Peekaboo

You can't see- me!
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 3:18pm PST 
Treadmills are your friend. smile

Seriously, though, treadmill train her. You can find a used treadmill on Craigslist for a reasonable amount, train her to use it, and then she will be able to get enough exercise. Yes, you will still have to supervise her while she's on it, but you won't have to put as much effort into it. I know that it may not seem like it'd be that much fun for her, but if you train her right, I guarantee that she will love it. All of my dogs are treadmill trained, and they "fight" over who gets to be on it -- and if I were to let them, they'd run themselves sick.

Another thing you can do is post an ad somewhere looking for someone to jog Daphne. You'd be surprised how many people will respond to an ad like that, especially for a well trained large dog and even moreso if you're anywhere near a college or university. People who want a dog but can't right now, students who have left their dog at home while they're away, or people who want a big dog to "protect" them while they're jogging (so they're not jogging alone and therefore aren't an easy target) are the types of people who might respond to an ad like that, among others. Of course, you have to be absolutely certain to screen well, to meet the person(s) more than once, and to get a copy of their driver's license.

Try scheduling doggie play dates. They'd be more tiresome than the above two suggestions, but they're another way to get her exercise without having to absolutely kill yourself to get it for her. If they're with people you trust and/or understand the situation, they may be willing to pick Daphne up so you don't have to wear yourself out bringing her.

If you've got stairs, play fetch with her up and down the stairs. You sit at the top, throw the ball down, and let her chase it down and bring it back up. Those cat toys that are the ball in a ring track I've found to be really good for some dogs, too. Give it a spin, set it on the ground, and watch her go. Or you can try the cat fishing poles, only get (or make) a dog sized one. Again, a bit more effort required on your part, but you can at least stay sitting down.

Daphne is a program dog, yes? You can talk to her program about what other ideas they might have for making sure she stays in shape. I'm sure that this is not a foreign problem to them.

Last, but far from least, take car of yourself. Talk to your doctor if you haven't already about your increasing lack of energy. If you're not taking any, see about taking some vitamins to help increase energy. Are you taking Vitamin D? With the lack of time getting out, you probably need to be taking it if you aren't, and that can absolutely make you tired and achy. You're welcome to pmail me about what other vitamins might be helpful. Make sure to regulate your sleep cycle. I know it's counterintuitive, but don't sleep during the day when you're tired -- it'll make things worse. Find what your regular cycle is and stick to it no matter what; it absolutely will make a difference.
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Otto - Registered- Service Dog

ADI cert. - the only one- that matters!
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 4:40pm PST 
Maybe you could try something like this:
http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=4PcL6-mjRNk&feature=results_main&playnext=1&list= PL6BBEC8A1799F0353

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I don't know your diagnosis (no need) but I know how you feel. You should know a manual wheelchair is much more work to use than most people think, even an ultra lite one. If you don't have the energy to walk to the car, you probably won't have the energy to propel yourself in a manual chair. I need help propelling when I use a manual chair - I wouldn't use a dog for that.

If your medical condition doesn't require one, insurance won't pay, and the ultralights are ultra expensive!frown Sure, you could try to get a used one, but these are usually modified for the previous owner and may not suit your needs. At the very least, you would probably have to buy new seating (my cushions were $550 for the seat and $725 for the back, but I needed specific support).

Or you can go for a scooter or power wheelchair. I have a power chair that is my main form of mobilization. Without it, Otto would get little to no exercise. I'm looking for a new one now. The one I would love to get is about $15,000 and doesn't recline, stand or do anything funky! Insurance will likely only approve $5000, so I won't be getting the chair of my dreams.

In addition you need to modify your car, probably a van. I spent about $7000 on a lift for my new van three years ago - not covered by insurance.

It's a huge problem for both of you and I'm sympathetic. The previous poster gave some great advice. Otto's school questions it's clients about their plans on exercising the dog if their condition gets worse. You need a plan!

Good luck. I hope you figure something out.
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Luke

Proud to serve
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 5:58pm PST 
I don't know your diagnosis, but I have Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and I suffer similar issues as you. It is ridiculously easy to exhaust me into a 15 hour sleep. Doing the dishes is like climbing Everest. Laundry or mowing the grass? Oy...

I second what was said about the manual chair. It is SO much work to use one. I have an ultralight, a Quickie Q7 and it weighs a mere 18lbs. It is also exhausting to use. If you're gonna go wheelchair, as hard as it is to do, go power. You'll mostly likely regret it if you don't.
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Sabi

When the night- closes in I will- be there
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 6:36pm PST 
Peekaboo had some great ideas, check local schools as well. Lots of kids that would love a dog can't have one and will often walk dogs for free or just play tag, fetch, etc.
You aren't horrible at all. Crap happens.hug
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UKC ALCH- Coleman SD

Coleman at your- service
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 6:57pm PST 
Does she enjoy playing ball or fetch with a toy? On my bad days, I toss a toy or ball from the bed (balls can also be rolled off the bed too), Cole gets it and hops on the bed to put it in my hand. Rinse and repeat
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Jackson Tan

Lad about town
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 7:40pm PST 
You're not a horrible handler at all. hug You can't help it, please try not to feel bad. You are doing everything you can and even more by the sounds of it. I agree a manual wheelchair can be so hard to use if you don't have upper body strength, I think looking into a motorized scooter would be your best bet, and a treadmill for your SD could also really help. Keep your chin up. hug
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Becker, CGC,- LEK-SD

Where will we go- today?
 
 
Barked: Mon May 14, '12 11:37pm PST 
Ok, since Becker is Daphne's older brother, I have a lot of info that might help you on this.

First off: If she is gaining weight, you are feeding her TOO much!! She only needs to eat the amount of calories that she is going to use in the day. If she is not doing very much, then she needs to be eating less. On days where I am not doing very well or do not go anywhere, I cut Becker's food in half. If there is a day that I know I am going to be on the go all day long nonstop, I increase his food. Becker get comments all the time about what a great weight he is because I keep a close eye on this. Because Daphne is a mobility assistance dog, it is IMPERATIVE that you get her back to a healthy weight right away!! The more weight she carries around on her body, the more strain it puts on her joints. That means her joints will deteriorate well before her time. This also means that for every lb of excess poundage she is carrying around, that is at least 5lbs LESS weight she can accept from you in her work. If you do not get that back into balance, it is quite likely she could be seriously hurt by your working her in any mobility type work. So my suggestion is to put her on Nature's Variety Raw Chicken premade patties. Raw food is much easier to digest and helps get weight back into control. It is more satisfying for them also, so she will not notice as much if you cut back the amount. I break up the amount into two meals a day. Becker eats 2lbs a day (4 - 8oz patties). If we are having a slow day, he may only get 1-2 patties. If we are having a heavy work day, he may get 5-6 patties. I will buy two of the packages of patties at a time and it usually lasts me about a week and a half. I will keep one package in the back of the fridge so it defrosts slowly. Then I will open the other package and separate each patty into a ziplock bag and put those into a large pasta bowl or on a plate. This helps them to defrost evenly as well as making it easier to feed. I would suggest feeding Daphne 2-3 patties a day. 1-2 on slow days, and 2-3 patties on busy days. If it is a slow day where she is only getting 1 patty, feed it in the morning, then give her like a Greenie or a piece of chicken jerky at night. Get that weight under control!

Second- I highly recommend getting a wheelchair for Daphne. Invest in a pulling type harness for Daphne and have her pull you on flat roads a little at a time and build up to more and more. This will keep her strength up and be great in helping her shed those pounds. You can also use it to help keep your strength up when playing with her. Use things like Chuck-it's to make her run farther for balls. You can also start doing weight pulling with her but start out with small amounts of weight and build up to things like logs or heavy chains. She can do that around the back yard. Also invest in toys that help her work her brain. That burns calories too. Try to only use affection as a reward and not treats. You can get an Easy Button from Staples. She knows what that is. You can work with her pushing the button in various places around the house. You can also teach her to bring you things around the house. You can do that while you are laying on the couch if needed. Try to keep her as active through out the day as possible. I do not agree that a treadmill is a good idea. For a dog who has never been exposed to something like that, and one who has had previous fear responses, I do not think it is a good idea unless you really know what you are doing. I think a wheelchair will be your best bet. If you need to explain anything to your family, just tell them that it is to help Daphne lose weight and get stronger so she will live longer and be able to work longer.

Even if you are sitting down at work all day, try to take breaks often to get her up and have her retrieve something for you. Any amount of movement she gets during the day will help burn those extra calories. Do not leave her home for any reason. She needs the exercise. If you go somewhere, TAKE HER! Because you do not have a lot of energy, you need to utilize every opportunity to get her exercised. Maybe when you are at the grocery store, use the scooters so you can move at a faster pace so she is doing some jogging. dog walk

You might want to think about hiring a dog walker if you are unable to exercise her much. There are plenty of people out there with very limited mobility and energy who use service dogs and are still able to find ways to exercise the dog. Doggie play dates, automated ball launchers, hiring a friend or neighbor to take your dog running, using a motorized scooter to go for jogs around the block. Every little bit helps, but you must think outside the box. Just like you have to give your car oilchanges and tune ups, you have to keep your service dog in tip top shape if you want her to be around a long time working for you.

I too do not have a lot of energy on some days, but on those days, I have my husband take Becker for a walk for me or I drive somewhere where he can run around while I sit down on a bench. If she is reliable off leash, I am sure there are many options in your area. Look on Yelp for fun things for dogs to do in your area. Getting outside will not only help you, but will certainly help her. Fresh air always does good. Just try to remember that a romp in the back yard is not very good exercise just like for people going to the mail box does not really count as a work out. There are many options of ways to exercise her, but it is very important to get that weight under control ASAP or you could be looking at a serious injury and/or very early retirement.
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LEK Daphne,- SD

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Barked: Tue May 15, '12 7:57am PST 
Thanks everyone!

If you don't mind me whining for a bit: My physical diagnosis right now is "conversion disorder" which is like super-hypochondria. I'm really okay with this diagnosis. I was ashamed when I got it 3 years ago but I realized since then that suffering is suffering, whether it's in your head or body.

However, my Bipolar has been in remission since March and I've been emotionally stable. I've been in specialized therapy for my conversion disorder for 3 years and I've been an enthusiastic patient. My physical symptoms are still getting worse and they get scarier everyday. It gets hard to breathe, my ears ring, I get disoriented or confused very easily, sometimes the whole day will feel like Deja Vu (like I'm repeating the same day). I've been trying to get in to see a neurologist but most of them won't even take me as a patient because of my "conversion disorder" diagnosis.

@Becker, you were right about the treadmill. I found one at home and last night I tried to get her started. I started her off really slow, treating when she moved toward the treadmill, when she sniffed the treadmill, when I was able to coax her onto the treadmill, etc. I got her to sit on the treadmill and she seemed really wary. Then, I put her in a sit stay NEXT to the treadmill and I turned it on. She sniffed it, still looking cautious. When I asked her to put a paw on the moving treadmill and she did, she realized it was moving and that really freaked her out. After that, she had had enough and if I asked her to do anything she would look away. I tried to take it down a notch and get her to put her paw on the stopped treadmill and she refused. I offered her a treat to peak her interest and she refused the treat.

I didn't really push her after that. I know I could keep working on it with her but, like you said, I'm nervous about her past fear issues.

She's fine with elevators, escalators, and those "people movers" (essentially large treadmills) at airports, but I can see how the treadmill in the house is sort of imposing and scary.

Daphne is still at a healthy weight (says the vet) but you're right about mobility dogs needing to have less fat. I'm still feeding her the same amount of kibble that the program fed her but it's a different type of kibble and, obviously, she is less active. I'm definitely going to try those patties. Where can I get them? Are they expensive?

@Everyone
You guys are right about the wheelchair. It would be a lot harder than just walking. I'm looking into a bicycle (my legs are stronger than my arms). The reason I don't bike now is because I have balance issues but I've found a few really nice adult tricycles on Craigslist. There are some nice, quiet, flat roads near my house where I could ride slowly with Daphne in tow.

I'm worried about hiring a dog walker because I don't want Daphne to get too attached. I'm not even supposed to let family members pet her because the SD/Handler relationship needs to be exclusive. My parents have been helping me out with her when they can but even that makes me nervous. If I need to do it, though, I will, because her health is more important.

Daphne does like playing fetch, but she's not consistent with it. If something distracts her for a second, she drops the ball. She won't always come back with the ball. Sometimes she even sniffs the ball and then comes back without it, looking for me to throw another ball. Essentially, I feel like fetch on the stairs will require me to climb almost as many stairs as her.

Anyway, thanks for all the ideas, everyone!
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Becker, CGC,- LEK-SD

Where will we go- today?
 
 
Barked: Tue May 15, '12 1:41pm PST 
You can find a store near you by searching here:
http://www.naturesvariety.com/locator

It depends on how you think about it as to if it is expensive. It is about $23 a bag here. But he is the healthiest he has ever been. If you are feeding her a different brand than she was getting at the program, then you need to adjust the amount anyway. At the program they get a lot of exercise each day. Plus with a new brand it is going to have different effects on her body. So keep that in mind when choosing a different food. I would recommend changing her over to the Nature's Variety patties at least until her weight is better. There is no need with raw foods to do a slow transition, but you will need to do a slow transition back to kibble as it is hard for their gut to go back to kibble easily after having raw for a while.

Becker has a hard time with fetch sometimes too. I find that squeaky tennis balls help. But you are likely right that you would end up having to go up and down more stairs than her if you tried the throwing the ball for her that way. lol Becker loves things that make noise, or wool toys that he can pull apart. I can toss them around for him and he will pounce on them, but he is not really one to run after a toy too much. I think your best bet would be doggie play dates.

A bike is a good idea though. I have been thinking seriously about getting one myself. Just start out slow and be sure to give her clear directions of what you want so she does not get hurt. You may want to start introducing her to sled dogs commands for Right and Left.

In your situation, I think your best bet will be to change her food and amount and just up her exercise a little and she will get back into prime shape in no time. I don't think it will take a whole lot.

Hugs!! You guys will be ok.
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