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Very timid puppy

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Dolce

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Barked: Thu Jan 19, '12 10:00pm PST 
Today we went to pick out a pomeranian puppy and ended up putting a down payment on a gorgeous 6.5 week old. There was only one thing that has been bothering us, and we wanted to consult with the 'experts' since this is our first pet.

When we just walked in, it seems like the pup's just woke up from napping, so they took a minute or two to rev up and get out of their corners. They were all bouncing around and wrestling within 10 minutes or so. The one we chose was not though. Whenever one of the other pup's would bite him he would just walk away. He wouldn't really give us attention at all. When we had the toy in our hands the other pups would almost ravage us, playfully, while he just sat looking around.

We could easily pet him and play with him without him being annoyed or anything, but he just wasnt aggressive or dominant or self playful in any way. If I was describing a person I wouldn't really call him shy, just more like timid, unreacting and a general auro of "I don't really care whats going on around me".

When we spent one on one time with him, after a bit of time he opened up slowly and started nibbling on the toys we would give and our fingers and licking them. But it would definitly go on and off.

The breeder said that this one is just shy. She said that they open up once they get used to you, but hes definitly just not dominant. She also said at 6.5 weeks hes still young, and considering they just got done weening him off the mom and its only been 3 days since. The other dogs seem just fine though.

We have no problem if hes not the alpha, or that he isn't gonna be the most wired puppy out there, we are just worried with that he will never open up and will never wanna play or pay us any attention.

Any advice?

Edited by author Tue Jan 24, '12 8:32pm PST

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Peach

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Barked: Sun Jan 22, '12 7:02am PST 
I've gone through this recently =) With Peach's breeder, I was supposed to get a male... But the one she earmarked for us as "correct" ended up being a lot like what you're describing. Instead we have Peach, who is a similar temperament (Timid, undemanding) but very bold when she feels secure. I did keep contact with the person who did get "our" puppy, though!

She says he's an amazing little dog, and he's actually less shy with strangers than Peach is. He is very accepting of new things because he isn't actually timid or shy, he's just observant rather than actively curious.
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Barked: Sun Jan 22, '12 4:05pm PST 
Thanks for your response. We have decided to stick with our choice of our puppy. It was just super hard at first because EVERYTHING online catagories timid or shy as automatically something is wrong with the puppy and it wasn't socialized. This just didn't seem like the case since our pup didn't fit the description usually assigned to not socialized puppies(either super aggressive or super scared).

We should be getting it next tuesday and we are SUPER excited! hamster dance
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Kip & Oogie

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Barked: Mon Jan 23, '12 3:18am PST 
Congratulations on your new puppy!! As long as you are going with the puppy that your gut is telling you to get, I doubt there will be a problem. Your gut is a pretty good indicator of which pup you will bond with the most quickly, IMHO.

The breeder is probably right that he will open up a bit more once he gets used to you. Kip and Oogie are littermates- and when I first went to look at the litter Oogie was very much like the pup you are describing (calmer, shyer, and more independent than the others- more interested in doing her own thing rather than playing with you or the other pups). I ended up getting both her and her brother (her first, then going back and buying her brother too several weeks later), who was very interested in me and playing, whereas Oogie was more interested in investigating things like cats or random fuzzies on the carpet shrug It took longer to bond with her, and she's still more mellow (and much more independent) than Kip but has gotten more affectionate than she used to be, granted it's all on her own terms laugh out loud Kip, on the other hand, is my furry shadow and STILL follows me around everywhere even nearly a year later- just like he did from the day I met him. The only reason I didn't put the deposit on him straight away was because everyone told me not to get a male dog for all of the negative stereotypes that are perpetuated about them- and what I learned is sex doesn't matter nearly as much as personality when choosing a dog. I also must say, regardless of sex, some dogs are just more independent than others, but that doesn't mean that they love you any less- they just show it a little differently and at their own pace. It took me a while to learn that, but I am so grateful to now have that perspective! smile

Anyhoo, good luck with your new pommie!! happy dance
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Peach

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Barked: Mon Jan 23, '12 4:29am PST 
I rather liked my breeder because she didn't believe in dominance theory. Someone who was supposed to get a bold puppy decided not to take the male she thought would be good after meeting him, because they said he was "too alpha". Really, the little snot was the biggest puppy (Peach was probably half his size, his smallest sister was lucky if she was a quarter) so he never had anyone tell him off! Actually, some friends of mine went to get him after I described him as "trouble", and he is doing very well with an adult dog to teach him some manners.

Submissiveness or dominance are just in how the puppy was raised. I know Peach was socialised, and all her siblings, but they all act differently. Peach is shy, one brother was observant, the other was bossy, a sister was sassy, and another sister was feisty. Their mom is sharp, and their dad was silly! A one-word modifier on a dog doesn't make it any less of a potentially good dog. Shy dogs just need a little extra moulding to be sociable, just like extra-bold dogs need a little extra moulding to be non-aggressive. They have their natures figured out, it's just time to get nurturing.
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Theodore- "Theo" Albus-

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Barked: Mon Jan 23, '12 10:00am PST 
I purposely picked my pup because he had the temperament you are describing! I didn’t want a hyper dog. Theo was the most mellow of the bunch so he was the one I picked. He ended up having so much personality, looooves toys and playing fetch and is incredibly playful. The first two days he was at my apartment he just looked around kind of scared. Then two days later he was running around like he owned the place! He never gets aggressive with other dogs or people and he doesn’t bark. I think the temperament is ideal and I’m sure it is a good thing! Congrats!
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Kip & Oogie

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Barked: Mon Jan 23, '12 1:03pm PST 
Peach is right- one word modifiers don’t determine the fate of a pup, but they can definitely help you to figure out the best way to raise the dog to be how you want it to be!

For example, even though Oogie has always been more independent and it took some work to get her more open to focusing on people, she’s always been more confident than Kip has ever been around new dogs. While Kip is more people oriented, it did take a bit of work to get him to be less shy around dogs that he wasn’t familiar with already. Regardless of a pup’s inborn nature, socialization is always important!

And, always remember that the time of day you go to look at a litter can affect how each pup reacts. Did they just finish a huge play session? Are they sleepy from eating? Did they just wake up? All of these things influence how a pup behaves when you meet them. Plus, 6.5 weeks is still so very young for the little ones!!

Like I said though, I wouldn’t worry about the pup growing up to never want to play with you or pay you attention though- With good parents who have sound temperaments there is nothing to worry about, really; some dogs just take a little bit longer to warm up than others! And when meeting a tiny little pup at 6.5 weeks, you have to realize that just about everything is a new experience for them- like meeting new strangers who will possibly be their future family!

Also, Theo, you are on to something about the mellow temperament and the no barking- Oogie never barks either! Kip on the other hand, has been known to bark at random things, such as grocery bags passing by on a windy day. Oogie pays no mind laugh out loud

Anyhoo congrats again on your new fur-baby! Have you decided what to name him yet?
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Dolce

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Barked: Tue Jan 24, '12 8:23pm PST 
Thank you guys for all the encouragement. I have GREAT news! We are picking him up next week, but just had to visit one last time laugh out loud

This time when we first saw him, he ran right up to us! He was energetic, playful and just overall perfect. He grew out of his quit stage! He was still less aggressive then the some of the other guys, but we like that. It was so exciting seeing him play with us and his toys, it was the biggest relief.

The breeder was right about him all along. She also ended up taking out and separating one of the other puppies a couple days ago because he was being overly aggressive, so it gave him a chance to climb out of his shell. Overall we are very happy with the breeder we chose, she has a house full of pets and has a heart of gold towards all animals.

Here's our little Dolce

http://i1133.photobucket.com/albums/m595/timelinex/Dolce/2. jpg

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Theodore- "Theo" Albus-

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Barked: Wed Jan 25, '12 1:13pm PST 
Dolce is soooo cute!
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Smokey Schaefer

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Barked: Sun Jan 29, '12 8:46am PST 
This happened with our Smokey accept we didn't get him as a puppy but he is far older and with time and one on one and slowly socializing him he is far more out going and is no long terrified of people. Your dog sounds wonderful by the way and don't worry with lots of love you pup will rule the house and love his toys.dog walk
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