Barked: Fri Jul 2, '10 6:35pm PST |
 |  |  |  | Hey Keiko- just remember, it's a public forum. People here a) strongly believe in what they're talking about and b) aren't face to face to convey emotion.
I don't think anyone meant to come across as harsh, but we also didn't want you to get taken in and ripped off by an unscrupulous breeder who would've told you anything to get you to buy a pup and we didn't want someone who would do that to profit off the life of a pet.
We would love for you to stick around and be a part of Dogster. Remember, it's not a shame to not know something. We were all born as ignorant as eggplants- it's only by learning that we better ourselves. Anything that one of us doesn't know, once upon a time even those of us who do know...didn't know either.
When you work in the dog industry, as many of us do, you see the real damage done to the lives of people and pets by people who breed for the wrong reasons and misrepresent the dogs they sell, often at exorbitant prices. We see people who overpaid for a dog they honestly thought would grow up to be a certain way and be healthy and happy, but who grew up to be completely different, which although it's not the dog's fault, is very disappointing, and who is very sickly and expensive to keep alive. If that dog's person can't afford treatment- surgery to fix cruciate ligaments or hips, entroption or ectroption, a bad heart- then oftentimes, they have to watch their pet die. Sometimes, no amount of money can fix the dog.
Not all designer mix dogs turn out that way, but when you've helped owners and pets who have been unfortunate like that, you really, really want to make sure it doesn't happen again, and people can get overzealous in their quest to prevent it.
I remember one lady who bought a litter of purebreds from a mill- a poorly bred dog is a poorly bred dog, regardless of breed- one of them died of kidney failure at 3 months. One had stenotic nares, where every time he breathed in, his nose closed, causing him to have to have surgeries to fix his nose, and one had a hole in her head that never closed. I know a lady with a designer havanese/bichon mix and its back legs are so deformed that the hock joints locked and the dog can barely get around. When you see things like that, you feel so sad that it makes you mad, and sometimes you come across as mad when you're not mad at the person you're talking to but at the injustice of what you've seen.
So stick around, we'd love to have you, and learn all you can- and teach us what you know, too. Every man is my superior in some way. In that, I learn from him. |  |  |  |  |
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