October 17th 2012 3:14 am
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Well here it is 3:00am and Mom still hasn't went to bed, which mean I haven't gone to bed either! Lucky I don't mind sleeping in the office while she works on the computer. Mom's worried about Grama, she has been diagnosed with lung cancer. Grama is worried too, not to mention Grampa. They've been married for over 55 years! Mom hopes to have that many and more years with Dad.
Mom & Dad's oldest Grand Daughter is 16 and she is going to live in Italy with one of her Mom's friends. That worries Mom & Dad too. She's just too young and will be on her own a lot. The woman she is going to live with is in the navy and works long hours. So Mom worries, man she wishes she got a vote sometimes, but she doesn't. So she worries. T.has been through way to much in her 16 years of life. It just feels like she's too young to be living that far from home. So Mom worries.
It's really good to have Dogster to go to. It gives Mom something to think about and look forward to. Not to mention the support some of the pups have given her. She's very grateful that people she's never met prays for us and gives us words of comfort!
Mom knows God is in control, but still, she worries. T's Mom,Kari,is
my Mom & Dad's oldest daughter and has been fighting an infection in her spleen for several months now and Mom worries.
Mom wants to fix everything for those she loves, but knows she can't and shouldn't even attempt to. God is in control, and Mom is grateful! It's not her burden to bear, God is in control and Mom is thankful. And because God is in control, Mom is hopeful. God is in control and she needs to rest in His peace, then, Mom's mind would be peaceful!
I guess the moral of the story is GOD IN IN CONTROL!
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My thinking is the grand-daughter will be just fine over there,
and we wll be pawraying for better health and speedy recovery for all your furmily members.♥
Dandi, we will be praying for you and your family. Dogster is a special place for mama, too!
Dandi, we will have all of your family in our prayers. Know that this Dogster place is great to help all of our pawrents when their is confusion and scary things happening in their lives.
We are praying for you and your family Dandi. Yes GOD IN IN CONTROL! Big hugs sweet girl ♥
I am so sorry for what your mommy is going through !
We want to fix everything , and avoid pain at all costs and oh ! boy we suffer the most 1
To take the burden over our shoulder is too much to bear and it will lead us only to depression
Who is mommy to say : relax ! but at least try to relax and enjoy Dosgter as a therapy for those moments when the world seems to be falling on top of us
Oh my goodness! There goes to good tears again! Mom & I are so thankful for all of you. Thank you all so much!!
Many Doodle Hug & Kisses to all of you, and again THANK YOU!
Dandi & Mom (Pam)
So sorry about your Mum.... just take it a day at a time... self will fights alot of battle too.
My Mum died when I was 14.... at 15 I was travelling to Europe and back alone.. I was capable.. and sensible. I left home at 17 permenantly... Yes it WAS tough.. NO it didnt all go right.. but you know... I had a brain... and I learned to be the independant person my folks prepared me to be.
So.. credit your grand-daughter with the knowledge she can do this. Give her the support verbally and morally and build her up to BE able.
You also have to believe WE are in control.. we have self will..and given half a sensible chance.. we do a decent job of living.
You know we care.. and we are here for you...
We are praying for you and your family!
Ben & Family
Thank you all for your prayers and kindness! Sometimes folks don't realize what a word of encouragement can do in another's life.
Doodle Hugs to You All
Dandi & Mom (Pam)